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 This failed date ①

When I invited him to the pool, he replied, "Okay, let's go with something other than the ○× we went to before!" I've been to the pool with him, but I've never been to the pool where he mentioned. , Memories with whom...?




Thank you very much for your question.

This question is a very common problem in the industry where I work. Although it should be the first time to come, I say "again" unintentionally and argue with my lover. It will soon be 10 years since I worked in this industry, and I have seen such scenes several times.

However, at least as far as I can see, the customers who say "again" involuntarily do not mean that they have visited the store before. The interior of a love hotel is similar everywhere, so it's probably misunderstood as a different love hotel.

There are two types of mistakes: dangerous mistakes and trivial mistakes.

It will be easier to explain this with a test at school.

For example, the answer "Iemitsu Tokugawa won the Battle of Sekigahara and established the Edo Shogunate" is wrong, but it is not a very dangerous mistake. It can be said that it is a typical careless mistake that just misspells the names of Ieyasu and Iemitsu.

On the other hand, the wrong answer, "Ieyasu Tokugawa established the Edo Shogunate and won the Battle of Sekigahara," is an extremely dangerous mistake. Unlike the previous incorrect answer, there is no error if you look only at the words, but the order is clearly wrong.

This can be called a structural error. If you understand the structure that you were able to open the Shogunate because you defeated the Western Army led by Mitsunari Ishida in the Battle of Sekigahara, you will never make this mistake.

Careless mistakes like misspelled words are trivial problems and shouldn't be a big concern. On the other hand, problems involving structural mistakes are serious and may require careful observation.

Then, which mistake is the mistake of the boyfriend of the questioner this time?

Words in 〇× are not so important

First of all, it's definitely just a typo.

The important part of the boyfriend's remark is the structure of "I've been to the pool with my girlfriend before, so I want to go to a different place . "

The questioner seems to imagine that he has been to XX with another woman before, but even that would be questionable.

Perhaps your boyfriend is simply not that interested in the pool. I'm interested in the pool, to be exact, but not the name. That's why he must have said the name that he somehow remembered the sound of.

Only two things are important to you. Going to the pool with the questioner and wanting to go to a different pool than before to entertain the questioner. For such a boyfriend, the name of the pool is trivial, and he must have made a careless mistake.

If the questioner said, "I want to go to a different pool than before," even though they have never been to a pool with their boyfriend, then you may need to worry about it. There is no need to worry if you make a mistake in the name of.

This failed date ②

I don't want to ruin the atmosphere at the amusement park, so I ride attractions that I'm not good at (screaming). After all, my face was stiff, and I worried about the girl I liked. I wanted to try another attraction, but it's so uncool it's hard to say... What should I do in this situation?

Thank you very much for your question.

If you look up the word screaming in the dictionary, it is written as "shouting as loudly as you can", and it can be said that the heart of so-called screaming attractions lies here.

In short, that kind of attraction is not about falling or spinning, but about "shouting". Screaming comfortably is the charm of the scream system, and jumping and jumping is just a means to scream comfortably.

I don't really like screaming, but I'm not that bad at jumping and jumping. Instead, I hate the act of yelling.

If you like screaming, please try riding the screaming system without screaming at all. Probably not very fun.

As long as we are human beings, we all feel stress from stimuli such as falling and spinning. However, by shouting, the stress will be released at once, and pleasure will be born there.

However, for those who don't like screaming, the screaming system is nothing more than a stressful machine. It's like taking a cold bath without entering a sauna, and it's just uncomfortable.

Various surveys have been conducted regarding screaming, but the common point in most surveys is that screaming is overwhelmingly popular with women. Of course, there are men who like screaming, but not as many as women. Screaming is the essence of thrill-seeking entertainment, and if you consider that men don't scream as much as women, this trend makes sense.

Up to this point, the content is for those who like screaming, "That's why you shouldn't put people who don't like screaming in the screaming system." For those who don't like screaming, those things are nothing more than stressful torture devices. If you have the experience of inciting an extremely honest person who just said they don't want to ride a torture device, "Are you scared? Lol", I would like you to take a hard look at it.

That said, it's clearer than looking at fire that they don't repent. And even if you do your best, you're probably still thinking, "This is the chicken." This will not solve your problem at all.

It's allowed if you say you're drunk

Now, let me introduce the measures to be taken by the questioner. I have also overcome many shambles in this way.

"get drunk"

If I say, "I'm afraid of screaming," I get yelled at, "Are you scared?"

"I'm drunk like that, so pass."

You can generally avoid this. It's not like you can't avoid it, but if you still can't avoid it, I think you'll back down if you say you've vomited in the past.

Also, by taking her own initiative and leading her to a relaxing attraction, she will be able to avoid screaming without even realizing that she is not good at screaming .

Also, this method can be used not only on dates with lovers, but also when you have a family and go to an amusement park with your children in the future. So even if your lover doesn't force you to scream, it's not a loss to learn this method.

Tokyo Summerland also has attractions other than thrill rides that you can enjoy leisurely.

If you don't like screaming, but want to go to an amusement park, Tokyo Summerland is a good choice.


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