how do you live? What you can do now to make your 30s more fulfilling

 I don't have big ambitions like wanting to be very successful at work, but somehow I want to do well. Introducing "work hacks" that update the usual way of working.

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I want to improve myself in my 30s

A man in his 20s who worked hard. Looking back, I didn't have the time or energy to fulfill my private life because I was just working.

People around me are getting married and having children, but my life hasn't changed at all. In my 30s, I want to enhance my work and private life! What can I do now?

Before turning 30, when you can see whether you are likely to be promoted or not, it is a turning point in your life.

Reexamine yourself, who has worked so hard, and ask yourself how you will live from now on. I wish I could think about it carefully, but the speed of life accelerates greatly from the late 20s.

"Hello, I'm 27." "Hey,
I'm 28."
"29! 30!"

And when you realize it, the speed of getting older will go up.

Take time to intentionally reflect on your career

That's why, from around the age of 30, take time to voluntarily think about "how to live."If you don't "try hard" to take time to think, you'll grow older.

First of all, count backwards your life and think about how long you can stay healthy. According to data released by the Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare, the average healthy life expectancy for women is 75 years (*1).

So what do you want to achieve by the time you're 75?

No matter how trivial it is, write down your ideal life.

write down everything you want in life

For example, in my case

・ Become a woman who suits CHANEL ・ Have
truffles put on a respirator before you die

There is also a very embarrassing life plan such as

・
Become
a parent who can say to their children, “Choose the life you want”

It also includes hard content.

What would your ideal life look like? You can write whatever you like, so let's start by listing everything.

choose to achieve this year

Then, once you have written your unlimited life plan, next from the list, “What are you going to achieve this year?” choose

For example, regarding "become a woman who suits CHANEL" on my list, regardless of whether it suits you or not, I bought CHANEL's lipstick this year and was able to achieve it.

In addition, I am doing my best in sales so that I can say "I did a big job" someday.

If you set goals for this year like this, you should be able to see what you should do in front of you naturally.

"My life goal is to show my grandchildren to my parents, so I have to give birth in 0 years... When I think about it, it's pretty soon to start looking for a match. Maybe I should check out a marriage agency... "

“If I think about living abroad, I have to get a job that allows me to be transferred overseas.

Think about what you should do now by counting backwards from your ideal life .

Point.

・If you don't have time to stop and think about what you should do in life, the time in your 30s will pass quickly
. Chaishou
・If you choose what you need to do this year from the list of things you want to achieve, and think about what kind of preparations you should make this year, you might not be able to spare time unexpectedly!