If you have a crush on someone at work, have you ever felt that the other person might like you too? This time, I will explain the atmosphere of being aware of each other, which comes from two people who are in love.
“I have a crush on someone at work, but what do they think?” “I feel like we both know each other, but it would be embarrassing if I misunderstood.”
Even if you don't say it out loud, you can tell from the atmosphere that two people have special feelings for each other. If you have a decisive blow that makes you think that the other person doesn't hate you and thinks of you, you want to get along.
This time, we will explain in detail what kind of atmosphere the two people who are conscious of each other in the workplace are creating. I will also show you how to approach it if you have two thoughts.
Without further ado, let's take a look at some typical examples of what kind of atmosphere there is when people are conscious of each other in the workplace.
(1) Frequent eye contact
It seems that two people who are conscious of each other often meet their eyes.
The appearance of the person you care about is something that you unconsciously follow with your eyes. If you suddenly feel someone staring at you, or if you meet someone when you look up, then you may be able to expect the other person to like you.
(2) are tense with each other
The atmosphere between two people who are aware of each other is awkward and tense.
Because you are overly concerned about how others see you and what you think of each and every statement you make, you may end up acting in a way that you would not normally do.
(3) Feel intimacy in a sense of distance
The distance between two people who are conscious is closer than other people, and they feel intimacy.
It's natural to want to get close to someone you like and want to go to. The closer the distance, the more unintentionally friendly you will feel.
(4) try to talk
It's common for two people who are conscious of each other to try to have opportunities to talk about anything.
You want to talk as much as possible with your partner, and you want to be with them as long as possible .
(5) Keep smiling while talking
A lot of body touch is also common when you are conscious of each other.
There are quite a few people who want to “touch their bodies” because of their close feelings and affection for the other person.
However, even if you become close, the other person may feel that you don't like body touch, so be careful. In particular, if there is a hierarchical relationship between the two, there are cases where it is difficult to refuse.
Don't overlook the other person's expression and reaction, and judge carefully.
(7) There are many private topics
People who are conscious tend to talk about their hobbies, life, family, and other personal topics that they don't often talk about with people at work . This is possible only because you trust and rely on your partner.
(8) They often act together
Two people who are conscious of each other often act together.
People who like you want to be with you for as long as possible, and you want to share the same things. Even if there is no inevitable reason such as work, we will try to do things together by making various errands and topics.
(9) Evaluation of the other party tends to be lenient
People who are conscious of it tend to be unintentionally lenient in their evaluation.
The state of being in love is often compared to "pockmarks and dimples." This means that even things that are generally considered to be flaws can be seen as attractive to those who are fond of them.
It seems that even mistakes that other people would have rated lower can be canceled out by the other person's goodwill .
(10) Immediately notice small changes in the other person
It is also a characteristic of two people who are conscious of each other that they immediately notice small changes in the other person.
Since I usually look at the other person closely, I can immediately notice small changes such as hairstyles, makeup, scents, watches and shoes.